John Pendal — Humour, Heart & Honesty in BDSM Education
With over two decades of international experience, John Pendal is a pillar of the BDSM community — educator, performer, and advocate for connection through consent. At Fetish Weekend London, he brings his insightful and inclusive approach to the workshop Autism and Kink, offering a rare blend of humour and depth.
Meet the Educator
John Pendal has been teaching BDSM workshops around the world for over 20 years, from Darklands (Antwerp) to KinkFest (Portland). His career launched in 2003 when he won the title of International Mr Leather in Chicago, and since then he’s dedicated his life to educating, entertaining, and empowering kinksters globally.
Mixing wisdom, humour, and emotional intelligence, John’s talks invite reflection on how mental health and neurodiversity intersect with kink. He is also a qualified life coach and mental health first aid practitioner, offering personal coaching to clients worldwide.
Workshop Details
- Title: Autism and Kink
- Date & Time: Friday 12:00 – 1:30 PM
- Location: Workshops Area — Fetish Weekend London 2026
This session explores how autism can shape kink experience — from sensory needs to communication styles and emotional connection. John creates a safe space for learning, sharing, and understanding how neurodiversity enriches our community.
Connect with John Pendal: johnpendal.com · Instagram @KinkyLifeCoach