First time at a large fetish event? Even seasoned kinksters need a refresher. Mastering consent and etiquette ensures everyone enjoys a safe, respectful, and unforgettable Fetish Weekend London.
Why Consent Is Non‑Negotiable
Consent is the cornerstone of BDSM culture. It means affirmative, informed, and revocable agreement to any interaction—be it a handshake, a scene, or a photo.
1. Always Ask—Never Assume
- Before touching anyone or their gear, ask clearly.
- Use open questions: “May I feel your latex?” vs. silent grabbing.
2. Use Negotiation & Safe Words
Even a quick dance‑floor scene needs boundaries. Discuss limits, signals, and aftercare. Common safe words:
- Green: All good, keep going.
- Yellow: Slow down, check in.
- Red: Stop immediately.
3. Dress Code Respect
Full fetish attire is required at night events. Daytime sessions allow kinky‑casual, but streetwear in parties = no entry. Need ideas? Read our Dress Code Guide.
4. Photography Rules
- No photos without explicit permission.
- Look for No Photo wristbands—respect them.
- Official photographers wear badges; pose if you’re comfortable, decline if you’re not.
5. Playroom Etiquette
Playrooms at 83 Rivington Street are monitored for safety.
- Sanitise equipment before & after use.
- Limit scene time if guests are waiting.
- Observe quietly; never interrupt an active scene.
6. Substance Awareness
Stay hydrated (latex is hot!), know your limits with alcohol, and avoid substances that impair consent.
7. Personal Hygiene & Scent Sensitivity
Latex shines brighter—and scenes feel better—when everyone is fresh. Go easy on strong perfumes; some guests are scent‑sensitive.
8. Respect Pronouns & Roles
Use the names/pronouns people give you. Never out someone or use honorifics (Sir, Mistress) without permission.
Quick FAQ
- Can I hug friends I meet? Ask first—consent applies to hugs.
- What if I see a consent violation? Alert a staff monitor immediately.
- Is flirting allowed? Absolutely—just keep it respectful and back off if uninterested.
Final Thought: We’re All Responsible
When everyone upholds consent and etiquette, the whole community thrives. Let’s make Fetish Weekend London 2026 the safest, most empowering celebration yet.